As a professional eater and writer, I'm allocated about 650 words to review a restaurant. That includes assessing food, service and other things that constitute the dining-out experience.
A reader who calls himself amateur eater sent me 609 words on the things that are important to him when he dines out. Food isn't mentioned.
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NOISE LEVEL: I do not go to a restaurant if I've gone once and found I can't hear my companion without shouting. Music: If it is muted, I prefer that. I can even tolerate country-western but only if it sounds like it is coming from the kitchen and the cooks look cheerful about it.
LIGHTING: If it is so dark I need a flashlight to see menu, I'm not coming back. If none of the light is natural, I generally feel uncomfortable. I like a window here and there.
DECOR: If the decor looks like it came from a restaurant supply house, I reduce my expectations.
BOOTHS/CHAIRS: I like booths if the bench seats are upholstered and they provide a visual barrier between us and the next couple for privacy. When chairs are either too small or can't be pulled out without knocking into another diner, I am less likely to return. It seems obvious to me that they are more interested in volume than customers.
MENUS: If they are dirty, food-stained or tattered, I'm uneasy about everything else.
GLASSWARE: I am not fussy, but it is reassuring to see it shine, to have it well placed; to have it replaced if I order a 2nd glass.
SILVERWARE: See menu above.
ENTRYWAY: If it is too close to the first set of tables, or the table where we sit, I often feel the breeze or find the crowd of waiting customers annoying. I'm there to enjoy my meal, not hurry through it as if I were guilty for going to dinner.
STAFF INTERACTION: The way they treat each other (brusque) and the way they talk among themselves (gossipy, unaware of the customer's presence) can be a real meal-buster. I saw too much of the latter at one of Tacoma's alleged best restaurants last week. I don't need devoted attention. Don't even want it. But I resent it when 2 staff 3 feet away are blathering about their weekend.
BUSSING STATIONS: Since I was 15 I have wondered by any serious restaurant would locate a seat or table within 10 feet of a bussing station. It's not only disruptive to hear/see the stashing/clanking of silver and china. It is unsavory. Even if there is a visual screen, I can't imagine any customers who want to be near it. )
CEILING HEIGHT: It may seem trivial. But low ceilings feel oppressive. High ones lift the spirit. Low ones make me feel as if I'm having a meal in a mobile home, high ones, a castle.
THE WAIT: How long do we wait before the hostess greets us or comes to our table. If a brief visual or verbal signal if given, I am OK for 4-5 minutes. But if they appear to ignore us I will leave. 3 minute wait is pushing it. 5 minute wait is too long.
WINE/BEER LIST: If it's weak (i.e. only 4-5 mediocre choices I skip them. If there is no cabernet, I order beer. If the beer list is timid, so is my meal.
OTHER CUSTOMERS: I never see this mentioned in reviews. But here are some "first impression" effects I am willing to bet will decide whether a customer comes in or walks away:
AGE OF OTHER CUSTOMERS: If too many toddlers, prepare for chaos.
ELEGANCE OF CLOTHING OF OTHER CUSTOMERS: Either too fancy or too shabby.
MANNERS OF OTHER CUSTOMERS: If they're obnoxious, rude or rowdy, we'll think twice about returning).
ETHNICITY OF OTHER CUSTOMERS: If I'm going for a serious Mexican meal, it inspires me to see some Hispanic faces.