2013 ‘Life-Changing Anthem,' Banned by Country Radio, Became Song of the Year
Kacey Musgraves wasn't trying to start a culture war when she released "Follow Your Arrow" in 2013. But by encouraging listeners to ignore the critics and live life on their own terms, she struck a chord that transformed the track into an anthem.
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Banned from country music radio due to it progressive lyrics, "Follow Your Arrow" references both LGBTQ+ acceptance and drug use. The line, "Kiss lots of boys / Or kiss lots of girls / If that's something you're into," and "Roll up a joint," caused conservative radio programmers and industry executives to bristle, as they found these themes too taboo for their demographic.
Though the song, the third single from Musgraves' major label studio debut album, Same Trailer Different Park, didn't reach the masses in the way a young artist from Golden, Texas, trying to make a name herself had hoped, she was still OK with the bump in the road.
"‘Arrow' was the last song I turned in for that record," Musgraves told The Hollywood Reporter last year. "It ended up tanking - it was banned by country radio. But I would never trade that for the love and the people it brought to my world. I'm not going to present a watered-down version of myself to be accepted. I'll f-ing shovel sh– for a living at a horse barn, and I'll be really happy. Or I'll just be a songwriter. Anyway, it ended up working out."
Despite the controversy, "Follow Your Arrow" peaked at No. 10 on Billboard's country chart, No. 60 on the Hot 100, and was named one of the decade's defining songs. What's more is the Country Music Association awarded the rallying cry Song of the Year in 2014.
"Do you guys realize what this means for country music?" Musgraves said during her acceptance speech. "This award means so much because our genre was built on simple, good songs about real life, and that's what this was. It's because of the fans and the people that connected with it that spread it and took it farther than I ever thought it could be."
No stranger to ruffling feathers, Musgraves kicked off her career in country music as a lightning rod. In 2012, she was cautioned not to release her debut single, "Merry Go Round," to radio stations. The song, which challenged the romanticized fantasy of small-town living and tackled stigmas like teenage pregnancy, drug and alcohol abuse, and miserable marriages, peaked at No. 63 on the Hot 100 while also establishing the voice of a true trailblazer in modern country music.
Musgraves' fight to release her debut single on her own terms paid off: "Merry Go Round" wound up a Platinum-certified hit that went on to win Musgraves a Grammy for Best Country Song at the 56th annual awards ceremony.
"It's funny, though, because I wasn't setting out to be some martyr or freaking rule-breaker," Musgraves added to THR. "I'm just doing my job as a songwriter. When you look at country music as a genre and where it started, it is really textured, beautiful layers of real stories, heartbreak, things that aren't always easy to talk about. It's stories for the everyday person. And that's what always draws me back to country music: It's there for you, no matter what you're going through."
She may be riding out a "Dry Spell" right now, but this girl is anything but.
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This story was originally published May 31, 2026 at 12:53 PM.