1991 Classic Ranked Among the Greatest ‘Breakup Songs of All Time,' Despite Never Reaching No. 1
In the fall of 1991, Bonnie Raitt released her heart-wrenching classic, "I Can't Make You Love Me." The piano-driven ballad served as the second single from her Grammy-winning album, Luck of the Draw, which arrived on June 25th of that same year.
"I Can't Make You Love Me" was written by Nashville songwriters Mike Reed and Allen Shamblin. Lyrically, the song examines the emotional toll of a one-sided love, with the singer poignantly conveying the pain of longing for feelings that never will be reciprocated.
Vocally, Raitt captures the anguishing message of the song. Her flawless and raw delivery finds her holding the long notes over a sweeping piano melody and gentle drum beat.
Needless to say, her recording of "I Can't Make You Love Me" has gone on to become a beloved anthem of lost love, but, according to The Tennessean, Raitt wasn't the artist whom the songwriters had intended when they sat down to pen the tune.
Taking over six months to write, the song's origin, inspired by a line in a 1989 newspaper article about alcoholism, began as a bluegrass song meant for Ricky Skaggs. However, evolving into a slow, moody tempo, it was Raitt's artistry that fit the vibe, and she too was drawn to the vulnerable lyrics.
As for the piano part, which Reid came up with, Shamblin recalls, "It was one of the most beautiful melodies I'd ever heard. And, and I didn't verbalize this, but I'm thinking to myself as he's playing that I don't even know if you should put words to this because it's so beautiful…. It was like God entered the room…."
Though a standard and a staple for radio station playlists, Raitt's "I Can't Make You Love Me" did not reach No. 1 on the charts. The track peaked at No. 18 on the Billboard Hot 100 and became a Top 10 hit on the Adult Contemporary chart.
However, since its release, "I Can't Make You Love Me" has gone on to place on various ranked lists, taking the No. 45 spot onBillboard's 100 "Best Breakup Songs of All Time" and No. 339 on Rolling Stone's list of "500 Greatest Songs of All Time."
Over the years, many artists across genres have put their spin on the tune. Prince, George Michael, Adele, and Boyz II Men are among the artists who have covered the classic, while Carrie Underwood first performed the song as part of her American Idol audition in 2005, in which she won her season.
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This story was originally published June 3, 2026 at 6:26 PM.